I also encourage my boys to do the same. It can be simple, complex, easy, hard, monotonous, or new; but it must be something.
Tanner and I set a goal in September to practice the piano every day for 20 minutes. We also have set a goal for Tanner to learn to swim by the end of May. This might be more on the part of my desire for him to have some sort of musical education and get some energy out while learning a valuable skill, but still. A goal is a goal. The first one has been more of a challenge, and to be frank, we haven't practiced since January. But Tanner is making great progress on the second one!
Tanner started swimming with the Idaho Falls Swim Team at the beginning of March. We have an amazing coach, who is much more patient than yours truly. In fact, I had the awesome experience of swimming in a Western Zone meet in Hawaii in 2001, with coach Denise, known lovingly by Tanner as "Coach A'nise". She is simply amazing with children and has Tanner wrapped around her little finger.
Every Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, we are up and out the door by 7:25 am so we can be to the pool, dressed, and ready to go. He 'swims' from 7:35-8:20, and I'm loving EVERY minute of it.
A recent goal has been for Tanner to 'go underwater' and be completely submerged without having a tizzy fit. Together, Tanner and I made a chart, and even bought a Lego set as incentive. For two weeks, Denise and I have been building up his confidence...and you know what? It has paid off.
Today, Tanner achieved an awesome goal. He was my brave and courageous little boy that went under water THREE times!!!
He earned himself a Lego set, and has been playing with it since we got home. In case you can't do the math, that's about 10 hours. The boy has barely stopped long enough to go to the bathroom, and eat meals.
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| That is the face of 'sound effects'. |
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| Luggage truck driver dude with a mullet. No kidding. Legos have come a long way in the last 20 years! |
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| He figured out how to 'read' the 'distructions' and put each creation together WITHOUT my help! |
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| Yes, he built this ALL. BY. HIMSELF. I did a little staging, but he put it all together! |
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| "Cargo plane about to crash land!" |
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| "Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr." |
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| "Engines have power!" |
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| "Safe landing....everybody off!" |
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| The 'distruction' book had more pictures than instructions, so he took EVERYTHING apart, and made new creations for seven hours. |
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| Showing Taylor the tool that takes apart the Legos. |
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| Where were these little tools when I was a kid? I was the designated 'Lego Biter' to get them apart for my brothers. |
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| Taylor was pretty amused, but was good not to touch anything... |
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| ...only when Tanner said it was "okay" did he dare get close to it! |
Now, if I could find something that could keep Taylor's attention BESIDES a movie, we'd be accomplishing yet another goal.
P.S. Anybody have a box of Legos that you're tired of stepping over or your kids are tired of playing with??? I'd be willing to buy them and take them off your hands for you!!!













3 comments:
Parker has a trunk full of legos, that's right a trunk. And I am sure someday you will too. They are the best bargaining chip I have! That is so great about his swimming as well, what a great idea!! Tell him to keep up the great work. I loved the action lego shots I laughed out loud that has been the scene in my kitchen as well all to often!!
What a good idea about the goal setting! Maybe I will have to try that!
You're amazing. I love everything about this post . . . I think I need to do better at teaching my children (and myself) about goal setting --- (goal setting is like a bad word to Nels, but that doesn't mean it needs to be that way for my kids!) :)
Also, Legos have been my best friend for years . . . you might actually find that they keep Taylor entertained as well . . . all my girls love them. I'd look on Craigslist -- or do a "wanted" ad on there -- for Legos. I got a bunch a few years ago on Freecycle. You could try that out.
Good luck!!!
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